Sometimes I just wander at random round this website when I should be doing boring stuff like defleaing my shirts or ironing the cat.

I stumble across posts that really grab my attention, so I then descend into the comments.. the word 'descend' deliberately chosen. Bit harsh, I know.

I'm talking about a subset of the posts on relationships.

I follow a thread and get increasingly gobsmacked by the opinions expressed. Then it dawns on me…. I'm eavesdropping on a chat-up conversation.

Now that's fair enough. Live and let live.

But for me it's a bit like "The Curious Incident of the Blog in the Night".

I just don't seem to understand what's going on till I've spent minutes trying to follow what's being said.

Is it just me?